A psychic medium acts as messenger who passes on the information that spirits want to communicate to the client. While giving a reading a medium has several ways of interacting with the spirit to both verify who they are and the receive the messages that they want to pass on to the client.
Most mediums will see an image of the spirit in their mind. Some can actually see an external image of the spirit in the room. A medium will usually hear the spirits message and then pass it on to the client. A medium will also sense the identity of the spirit and the information the want to convey.
Psychic mediums will provide evidence about the spirit they are communicating with so you will know it is your loved one. For instance the medium might tell you their hair and eye color, or how they passed away. The medium might receive an internal or the impression they have of how the spirit is linked to you.
Make sure that the psychic continues to provide information about the spirit until you are able to identify them. If you have yet to identity of the spirit then ask the medium to give you more information about them. Once you do identify the spirit and how they are linked to you then the medium will ask if there is a message for you, and if so relay it to you.
You can prepare for a reading by learning something more about the family tree. Most people are aware of their immediate family members, such as their grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Try to do some research about your family tree, like the relatives you may have only known in childhood. That way you can be prepared to receive any information that you loved ones think is important for you to hear.
The attitude you have about the validity of a psychic medium can affect your interaction with them. Try to remain open and friendly during the reading so the medium is comfortable with you. It is alright if you are skeptical about a medium being able to communicate with those who have passed on. Some people receive many readings from mediums before finally accepting that the information is coming from one of their loves ones. Just make sure that your skepticism does not turn into a hostile attitude that can affect the medium’s willingness to help you as much as possible.
Some psychics work only as mediums. Other psychics can both communicate with spirits as well as provide insights into your life through tarot cards and other means. When you call a psychic in San Diego ask them about the services they provide. If you would like to communicate with a loved one who has passed on then make sure that the psychic can provide that service.